Time for 'I do'

For most women, time is of the essence in regards to getting wedded. But these women are divided into 2 groups, there are those that would take their time and use it wisely in finding and assuring for that Mr. Right first and then decide on the wedding date. While the other group would feel that they are in a race with time, and since they’re not getting any younger they have the tendency to take any man that seems interested in them at the time, oblivious of the consequences or other unfavorable factors thereof. The latter group would focus on the wedding and the being married status more than they would focus about the individual condition of themselves and their groom candidate and its future impact on their lives as an (supposedly) eternal couple. Most often than not, this group of women would sacrifice their principle, feelings and faith just for the sake of that one day where they get to say ‘I do’. What they seem to usually missed to see and analyze is the days beyond that, the days where they have to actually ‘do’ the ‘I do’ to this stranger who they eventually realized they know nothing good about and thus not worthy to be called as their other half.

Human Satisfaction

Humans are not designed to be satisfied we are merely designed to desire it. Satisfaction is more of an illusion rather than a real destination. How far exactly do have to go to pursue that feeling of satisfaction? We may have succeed in tasting a tip of the great satisfaction everyone is after in this world or may even felt that we’ve reached it at some point in our lives but there is always another sky above the current sky. We would always desire to fly higher. Even when we say “enough”, it’s not due to our feeling of having enough satisfaction but it is most often due to our feeling that we have enough exhaustion and depression in trying to make real out of the illusion of satisfaction.